"Learn the form, but seek the formless. Hear the soundless. Learn it all, then forget it all. Learn The Way, then find your own way." - The Silent Monk, The Forbidden Kingdom
There is a lot of advice and ideas coming at you all the time in life.
But, none of them can be meaningful for you until you make them your own.
Once you have made any experience into something you can feel in your bones, than you can channel it into a unique expression of who YOU are.